Saturday, August 14, 2010

Chael/Grey and slavery

I called him today and said "I know you hate the word but I'm going to use it right now because of what I want to say.... I think you're a really good slave".

He replied, "I think so, too".

squee.

13 years of being a slave to me but hating the words "submissive" and "slave" and last month he acknowledged being submissive to me. Today he accepted the word "slave" as applied to him and took some pride in it.

I love the changes he's making in this and being able to talk about them more than vaguely (I was always vague and used different wording out of respect for his feelings... I didn't care what words we used so long as the relationship was what I wanted).

He always and continues to make me so proud.

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