Domestic

My domestic is setting a high standard for future domestics in the area of car cleaning. He just finished it a short while ago in preparation of my trip... it looks gorgeous, makes me happy to have it all tidy for the drive!

As my Twitter stated, he even dusted the inside of the gas-cap cover.

I love watching a servant of mine work. I just sat and read a bit and enjoyed the warm day while I watched him clean and wash and check fluids.

He also brought me a box of treats to have for the road.

Such a good boy, put a smile on my face today!

So once I'm done drying off here (just got out of shower), I'm running by Callie's to see her and her son about piercing details and then on my way north!

To NY

Am starting out either tonight or tomorrow morning to visit my family in NY. Sister has had an operation and asked that I come visit during her recovery period and I said, "sure".

Should be fun. Mom said we're all gonna go up to the Corning Glass Works to tour the museum one day and then another day maybe go wine tasting (which my sister isn't much for, not being a wine liker, but mom pointed out to her that she's such a lightweight that she'll be drunk and happy in no time so she'll have a good day regardless). Having grown up close to there, I've been to the Glass Works a few times -most recent with my spouse a couple years ago, his first time- but I'm looking forward to it. It's always very interesting to see and mom and sis and I have never gone together.

I'll mostly be bumming around my sister's house while mom is at work, laying about, watching tv and chatting with her while she takes it easy. Mom says she's healing well, so far, though. Had a slight hiccup where she had to go back in and have an abscess dealt with, but otherwise good.

I'm going to stop at the VA Safari Park on the way up. I've not done that in years and years. So cute and so stubborn and smart, those zebras and such.

Leaves are starting to drop from the trees up there, mom says. Should be pretty with fall colors starting. I miss that and am looking forward to it.

Went to Atlanta's Six Flags yesterday with Chael. Didn't make it the whole day, got worn out by adrenaline and too much heat/sunshine. God, it was blazing and horrid. I swear the UV has gotten stronger since I was a kid... I used to be able to look almost at the sun back then, now I can't barely stand to look at the horizon... the sky is just painful. And to walk around in it makes me so tired and sick feeling. I was always sensitive to sunlight like that, even when young, but now it's much, much worse.

The "Scream Machine" is a piece of garbage, painful garbage. Not worth riding.

The "Goliath" is great and has wonderful repeated zero-gee moments.

Those are the two extremes.

I cut my hair off last night at about 3am. I've a "faux-hawk" of sorts. I've the "chelsea cut", as others have told me it's called, around my face as I like it; a full mohawk; and the sides are shaved to 1" in length and moussed upwards towards the 'hawk. I'm debating shaving them all the way off, as I really liked it that way before, but I went this route first to see how I'd like my hair with a leetle bit left on the sides... I can always shave it the rest of the way off, growing it in is a bit longer taking.

I'd like to add some accent color like purple to it before I go to my mom's, but don't know if I'm going to bother... it's still 2 shades of green right now.

Domestic should be here soon to do my car, gotta get the hose ready..... wait, no, I'll just have him move it when I take him on the backyard tour today, what was I thinking?

Short but harder play tonight

Today I beat my domestic the hardest so far and he yellowed out just as we were coming to my planned end time. It was an exercise in both stress-relief/playfulness for me and in further testing of his reactions and limitation. I've gotten a better feel of him from it.

I'm getting a cold... my spouse gave it to me. One thing after another, nowadays, it seems.

In theory, we're going to Six Flags Saturday.

Spoke too soon...

Kidney pain began all over again. Thought I was done with it... had hoped the backache that started Sunday was just from yardwork I'd done Sunday.

Monday with the domestic I fiddled in the yard despite it, hoping that just working lightly would let it fade. Later that night it became very recognizable kidney pain and it's been with me today more. I'm back on meds and taking care of me, hoping to stop it before it gets as bad as it was before.

Long time, no update

General update of the last couple months:

I've been ill and largely non-social, and have put pro-d session indefinitely on hold. Am getting back into things and getting back in touch with folks now.

I've attended a couple of local social/BDSM events and am planning to attend one this weekend, it's on fire/ice/wax play. Not sure if I'll be attending the after-party; I'd like to but I still get tired pretty easy yet.

Things have been going well with the domestic and we've made great leaps and bounds recently on the front yard; it should be presentable and just waiting for baby grass to become real grass starting in about a month. He has offered to install a permanent sprinkler system for me and after speaking with my spouse I've told him he is to do so. I mix physical and power play with "normal" everyday activities as my general tendencies, but we've just started specifically with devoted scenes. We've had two so far, only one of any real intensity and that was more a familiarization with his responses (physical and behavioral) for me. We've yet to really get into it at all, but we're moving that way. All together, I am pleased with both his service and the beginnings of our play.

Have thrown out to Moki the idea of a "girly-night", getting together and just chilling, chatting and doing whatever we feel like away from folk over at my place. We've not hung out in months due to my not feeling well. Have another one or two I'm thinking to invite over, too.

I've toyed with but am not serious about the idea of starting a TNG group in the area to extend our local community, since the primary group does not allow anyone lower than age 21 and many in their 20s are uncomfortable joining a group where all adults aren't allowed and where the average member age is older than their parents. I'd not want to have it separate from AIRS, but rather just another group that intermingles those who wish to but is open to all of legal age. But reality is that my life is not such that I could head and arrange such a thing, at minimum with no thought to other considerations I live in a military household where we are in our "window" for orders... meaning we could be told to be ready to move in 30 days or still living here 6 years from now.

Instead, I'm thinking I'll maybe throw an occasional private party/hang-out, with basically the same arrangement as described above since it would be a private party rather than an established group's event; 18+ and just open to anyone I'm okay having visit my home. My house is pretty small so there isn't a huge play available, but with friends who are comfortable and casual such things can be worked out... it's not tiny, just not huge.

I've started learning Spanish plus am refreshing and trying to extend my German.

So that's the randomness of the past 2-3 months. Hopefully I'll soon be back to my normal self and have more interesting things to talk about again. Life has largely been on hold!

Personal domestic slave possibilities...

I've been contacted recently and am now in the process of trying out and getting to know a domestic servant/play partner named Domesticservice here. I'm optimistic.

I'm still and always open to other subs/slaves and play partners in both my personal life and my professional, so if interested don't think I'm not. But, if you wish to serve me personally, you need to know that I am not exclusive to one person.

This weekend I go to Atlanta to attend Southern Bash, a LGBT/BDSM event. I'm hoping nothing causes me to not go, I'm quite looking forward to it!