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Thursday, November 22, 2012
Wednesday, November 21, 2012
After The Meal
I'm so full I feel like I could explode.
Chael made a delicious anniversary meal, as always. The broccoli was to die for.
He said wonderfully sweet things to me and we discussed things we liked and things we could work on in our relationships. Then just general chatting.
A lovely evening.
He's now cleaning up and we'll do a back rub for me in a little bit.
Chael made a delicious anniversary meal, as always. The broccoli was to die for.
He said wonderfully sweet things to me and we discussed things we liked and things we could work on in our relationships. Then just general chatting.
A lovely evening.
He's now cleaning up and we'll do a back rub for me in a little bit.
Massage
Chael and I retrieved the massage table from the storage facility on his urging. He wanted to set it up in the livingroom so that we can use it for my daily massages.
It seems to be working out pretty well, over all.
It seems to be working out pretty well, over all.
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Heights
In the kitchen earlier something occurred to me.... I had Chael kneel and hug me around the waist like we sometimes do.
With our heights that puts his face exactly between my breasts.
This realization occurs after a failed attempt to surprise force him to kneel; I grabbed his collar and started to pull him towards me and down... And he just turned and started to hug me and I gave him a disgruntled hug back.
"What's the matter?"
"I was pulling down"
"Why?"
"I was trying to make you kneel"
"You gotta pull harder"
He wasn't being an ass, he was joking because he totally missed what I was trying to do.
There go some of my Dom Points.
lulz.
Relating to the kitchen part, he just came in to tell me he's mostly cleaned the kitchen and may be making the orange sauce for tomorrow's Fall Anniversary Meal tonight. And now he's in his room tinkering with the guitar I bought him last Christmas.
With our heights that puts his face exactly between my breasts.
This realization occurs after a failed attempt to surprise force him to kneel; I grabbed his collar and started to pull him towards me and down... And he just turned and started to hug me and I gave him a disgruntled hug back.
"What's the matter?"
"I was pulling down"
"Why?"
"I was trying to make you kneel"
"You gotta pull harder"
He wasn't being an ass, he was joking because he totally missed what I was trying to do.
There go some of my Dom Points.
lulz.
Relating to the kitchen part, he just came in to tell me he's mostly cleaned the kitchen and may be making the orange sauce for tomorrow's Fall Anniversary Meal tonight. And now he's in his room tinkering with the guitar I bought him last Christmas.
Three Current Rules
Three things:
Veganism
Hydration
No Diet Pop
I've been working with Chael on these for a while and he,s recently been doing very well on them.
He chose to go lacto-ovo veggie about 7 years ago, about a year after I did, due to his Buddhism. I've long since made the transition to vegan and have been trying to get him switched over, too. He'd do we'll for a bit, then fall back, over and over. I could appreciate this as I had a hard time transitioning. I told him again a few weeks ago that I seriously want him to make the change now.
So far, so good. His approach has been much different this time and that's been the key difference. In the past I've expressed that I'd prefer he be vegan and he's made an effort toward trying. This time I told him that I seriously wanted to make the change now. So, a bit after we were in the veggie meats section picking up some things and we got only the vegan stuff... We walked away and he said, "I guess I'm vegan now?" I said, "yep!" And he's been vegan. He's taken it on as something he is rather than something he's trying.
I'm very proud of him.
Chael has a bad habit of not drinking enough water and instead living on regular soda (pre-diabetic) or diet soda (diabetic). So he's "under orders" to drink water instead. He bought a bottle for it and so far drinks at least one a day. After he's well in the habit I'll up his daily requirement.
So far so good.
As mentioned above, he used to drink WAY too much soda. When he found out he was diabetic he switched to way too much diet soda. As artificial sweeteners are unnecessary to ingest and may have negative effects on health and weight (which he's trying to lose) he's not to regularly drink anything with artificial sweeteners. He does now once in a great while, but it's not at all the norm.
It's coming along well.
And, with a sudden loud burst of Gangnam Style from his room, I'm ending this note.
Veganism
Hydration
No Diet Pop
I've been working with Chael on these for a while and he,s recently been doing very well on them.
He chose to go lacto-ovo veggie about 7 years ago, about a year after I did, due to his Buddhism. I've long since made the transition to vegan and have been trying to get him switched over, too. He'd do we'll for a bit, then fall back, over and over. I could appreciate this as I had a hard time transitioning. I told him again a few weeks ago that I seriously want him to make the change now.
So far, so good. His approach has been much different this time and that's been the key difference. In the past I've expressed that I'd prefer he be vegan and he's made an effort toward trying. This time I told him that I seriously wanted to make the change now. So, a bit after we were in the veggie meats section picking up some things and we got only the vegan stuff... We walked away and he said, "I guess I'm vegan now?" I said, "yep!" And he's been vegan. He's taken it on as something he is rather than something he's trying.
I'm very proud of him.
Chael has a bad habit of not drinking enough water and instead living on regular soda (pre-diabetic) or diet soda (diabetic). So he's "under orders" to drink water instead. He bought a bottle for it and so far drinks at least one a day. After he's well in the habit I'll up his daily requirement.
So far so good.
As mentioned above, he used to drink WAY too much soda. When he found out he was diabetic he switched to way too much diet soda. As artificial sweeteners are unnecessary to ingest and may have negative effects on health and weight (which he's trying to lose) he's not to regularly drink anything with artificial sweeteners. He does now once in a great while, but it's not at all the norm.
It's coming along well.
And, with a sudden loud burst of Gangnam Style from his room, I'm ending this note.
Monday, November 19, 2012
The Profile Says So
CollarMe funny where a troll caught himself. Name changed, was sent to my profile linked over there --->
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Recent Message History:
Him on 11/19/12 at 4:10 PM:
Oh my...I have to compliment you on those needles to the back..wow, very creative. How long does one of those take to do? Must be hours?
RumpusParable on 11/19/12 at 4:21 PM:
Hello and thank you. The longest any have taken was 3 hrs 10 min. But those are the really big ones on Redeye (the black bottom). The smaller ones I do on others usually take about 30-45 minutes.
Him on 11/19/12 at 4:22 PM:
I am very impressed....it must take tons of patience and hand eye coordination. On your profile, you mention moving to the east coast, is that this spring?
RumpusParable on 11/19/12 at 4:56 PM:
Yep, around that timeframe, maybe a bit earlier. We're just waiting to see how slow/fast my husband's retirement paperwork goes through.
Him on 11/19/12 at 4:58 PM:
Retirement? How old is he?
RumpusParable on 11/19/12 at 4:59 PM:
Yup, he's 41. Did his 20 years of Army service.
Him on 11/19/12 at 5:00 PM:
Does he know you are searching for subs?
RumpusParable on 11/19/12 at 5:02 PM:
Yep, says so in my profile.
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Ah, profiles so hard to read and , ah, oh so hard when finding females who are honest with their partner(s).
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Recent Message History:
Him on 11/19/12 at 4:10 PM:
Oh my...I have to compliment you on those needles to the back..wow, very creative. How long does one of those take to do? Must be hours?
RumpusParable on 11/19/12 at 4:21 PM:
Hello and thank you. The longest any have taken was 3 hrs 10 min. But those are the really big ones on Redeye (the black bottom). The smaller ones I do on others usually take about 30-45 minutes.
Him on 11/19/12 at 4:22 PM:
I am very impressed....it must take tons of patience and hand eye coordination. On your profile, you mention moving to the east coast, is that this spring?
RumpusParable on 11/19/12 at 4:56 PM:
Yep, around that timeframe, maybe a bit earlier. We're just waiting to see how slow/fast my husband's retirement paperwork goes through.
Him on 11/19/12 at 4:58 PM:
Retirement? How old is he?
RumpusParable on 11/19/12 at 4:59 PM:
Yup, he's 41. Did his 20 years of Army service.
Him on 11/19/12 at 5:00 PM:
Does he know you are searching for subs?
RumpusParable on 11/19/12 at 5:02 PM:
Yep, says so in my profile.
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Ah, profiles so hard to read and , ah, oh so hard when finding females who are honest with their partner(s).
Morning Cuddle
Chael got home from PT at 7am.
After getting undressed and all he came into my room and expressed he wanted to cuddle. We'd missed last night's bedtime curl-up as he went to bed before 10pm and, well, I never did.
So we proceeded to have a lovely cuddle.
Our normal configuration is spooning on our right-hand side with him as the big spoon, his right arm stretched out under my pillow and holding my right hand. His and my left arms wrap around my waist.
So we're lying there relaxing, enjoying the spooning. It's a nice time of warm bodies, closeness, gentle touches, and teasing comments... Such as:
(he starts moving his legs around and pulling around the blanket)
Me: what are you doing? (wondering if he's getting up)
Him: I'm adjusting the blankets
Me: okay
(he gets the blankets how he wants and returns to spoon-position)
Him: sweaty girl
Me: I'm not sweaty, you are
Him: that's what you always say
Me: cuz it's true!
Him: then why is there sweat on you?
Me: because your touching me!!
And so after a laugh we go back to relaxing with him sometimes drawing circles on my back or running his hand down my left arm.
Then Jonesy sees what's up and decides he wants all in on the cuddle action.
Eventually we turn so I'm the big spoon.
Eventually, we get up.
And then he went and filled my tea cup again.
After getting undressed and all he came into my room and expressed he wanted to cuddle. We'd missed last night's bedtime curl-up as he went to bed before 10pm and, well, I never did.
So we proceeded to have a lovely cuddle.
Our normal configuration is spooning on our right-hand side with him as the big spoon, his right arm stretched out under my pillow and holding my right hand. His and my left arms wrap around my waist.
So we're lying there relaxing, enjoying the spooning. It's a nice time of warm bodies, closeness, gentle touches, and teasing comments... Such as:
(he starts moving his legs around and pulling around the blanket)
Me: what are you doing? (wondering if he's getting up)
Him: I'm adjusting the blankets
Me: okay
(he gets the blankets how he wants and returns to spoon-position)
Him: sweaty girl
Me: I'm not sweaty, you are
Him: that's what you always say
Me: cuz it's true!
Him: then why is there sweat on you?
Me: because your touching me!!
And so after a laugh we go back to relaxing with him sometimes drawing circles on my back or running his hand down my left arm.
Then Jonesy sees what's up and decides he wants all in on the cuddle action.
Eventually we turn so I'm the big spoon.
Eventually, we get up.
And then he went and filled my tea cup again.
In The Beginning...
...Rumpus said, "Thou shalt have sleep".
And the universe laughed, establishing once again that she was not yet God.
I've been up all night. Chael was asleep so I sat here for hours thinking every 15 minutes or so that I was thirsty and would get up in a little bit to refill my tea glass.
Yeah, at about 4:30am Chael filled it for me as he was getting ready for work.
And the universe laughed, establishing once again that she was not yet God.
I've been up all night. Chael was asleep so I sat here for hours thinking every 15 minutes or so that I was thirsty and would get up in a little bit to refill my tea glass.
Yeah, at about 4:30am Chael filled it for me as he was getting ready for work.
Monday, November 22, 2010
420 Needle Project/Performance
There's been a lot of hassle and difficulty in getting a location and date that everyone necessary can come, but it finally got all worked out:
This Saturday, Nov 27th Redeye42011 and I will be attempting our largest needle project to date: 420 needles, taking about 4 hours, in a design down his back, arms and buttocks.
We're going to be doing it at the local club on NEAAL night now that we've MsDawn's a-ok. I double-checked and the lady she has hosting it that night is aware of what we're planning and is also fine with it.
We are taking up a corner of the front dungeon and setting up my own lights, table, etc. and will be both videoing it and taking pictures.
I'm nervous for how pretty the design will hopefully come out and that it's going to be hard on both Redeye42011 and I (though in different ways). I've planned at least a break in the middle for us each to catch our breath and we're to each have an assistant (Lily for him, Chael for me) to keep us hydrated and to help me work as quickly and easily as possible.
Then, next day, I am working the vendor's fair at the same location doing permanent piercings and small temporary piercings at 25c/needle or cheaper with negotiation of large numbers. Miss Lilly and I are trying to figure out a way to pierce her for charity donations later that night at the play party. She's not sure if she might chicken out so we've no workable solution yet.
Tiring two days for me, upcoming. Phwoo.
Before then is Chael's and my Fall Anniversary on Wednesday (I train down tomorrow and then we'll come back up either Wednesday night or Thursday morning) and then Thursday we're having Thanksgiving with PSOGirl, her master and another friend of theirs. Just a small get together for the holiday.
This Saturday, Nov 27th Redeye42011 and I will be attempting our largest needle project to date: 420 needles, taking about 4 hours, in a design down his back, arms and buttocks.
We're going to be doing it at the local club on NEAAL night now that we've MsDawn's a-ok. I double-checked and the lady she has hosting it that night is aware of what we're planning and is also fine with it.
We are taking up a corner of the front dungeon and setting up my own lights, table, etc. and will be both videoing it and taking pictures.
I'm nervous for how pretty the design will hopefully come out and that it's going to be hard on both Redeye42011 and I (though in different ways). I've planned at least a break in the middle for us each to catch our breath and we're to each have an assistant (Lily for him, Chael for me) to keep us hydrated and to help me work as quickly and easily as possible.
Then, next day, I am working the vendor's fair at the same location doing permanent piercings and small temporary piercings at 25c/needle or cheaper with negotiation of large numbers. Miss Lilly and I are trying to figure out a way to pierce her for charity donations later that night at the play party. She's not sure if she might chicken out so we've no workable solution yet.
Tiring two days for me, upcoming. Phwoo.
Before then is Chael's and my Fall Anniversary on Wednesday (I train down tomorrow and then we'll come back up either Wednesday night or Thursday morning) and then Thursday we're having Thanksgiving with PSOGirl, her master and another friend of theirs. Just a small get together for the holiday.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Buddhist thunderbolt
Am having a wonderful relaxed time with Chael while he's home on leave. We've done a lot of fun and practical things.
It's destroying my sleep schedule, though, lol. I've had one hour of sleep and now am awake again while he snores away. Hopefully I'll be able to get back to bed soon and pass back out. We'll see.
We've done 3 cuttings on him so far and here is a picture of the most recent:
Tomorrow we put together cheap furniture and my suspension rack in my bedroom. I'm wondering how it's gonna fit (I know it will fit, but how well and how overwhelming it is is a worry).
It's destroying my sleep schedule, though, lol. I've had one hour of sleep and now am awake again while he snores away. Hopefully I'll be able to get back to bed soon and pass back out. We'll see.
We've done 3 cuttings on him so far and here is a picture of the most recent:
Tomorrow we put together cheap furniture and my suspension rack in my bedroom. I'm wondering how it's gonna fit (I know it will fit, but how well and how overwhelming it is is a worry).
Friday, February 5, 2010
Needle Planning
I've been sketching out some designs for needle work. Some will go smoothly, some ideas I had to dump (at least til I can find a better way for them).
I enjoy working with feathers, flowers, beads, et cetera but am focusing more, currently, on the shapes allowable by the needles themselves. Geometrics, swirls, etc. All the variety that can be done with little straight lines lol.
Also if anyone has used Super T Deadener I would love to hear reviews. Does it need to be occluded, like Emla, or no? I can't find anything that says and I'm hoping __not___. It would make life so much easier.
I don't usually use skin deadeners for needle or scalpel play, but on some bottoms or when planning to do many, many needles or cuts it's helpful; the bottom last longer because they don't feel most of it. Not useful when they __want__ the pain, but very handy when art is the goal and not sensation.
I'm also considering using needles for their after-marks. Where the design of the needles themselves isn't important or the goal, but how the wounds look after they're removed. I'll have to think on this some more...
And I got a whole bunch of supplies this month, so I'm happy. Gauze by the pound, a few hundred needles, a new organization box, several staplers... lots of goodness. So now I have my pack full and also have some storage backup in my Sharps/Mods Shelves in my bedroom.
I enjoy working with feathers, flowers, beads, et cetera but am focusing more, currently, on the shapes allowable by the needles themselves. Geometrics, swirls, etc. All the variety that can be done with little straight lines lol.
Also if anyone has used Super T Deadener I would love to hear reviews. Does it need to be occluded, like Emla, or no? I can't find anything that says and I'm hoping __not___. It would make life so much easier.
I don't usually use skin deadeners for needle or scalpel play, but on some bottoms or when planning to do many, many needles or cuts it's helpful; the bottom last longer because they don't feel most of it. Not useful when they __want__ the pain, but very handy when art is the goal and not sensation.
I'm also considering using needles for their after-marks. Where the design of the needles themselves isn't important or the goal, but how the wounds look after they're removed. I'll have to think on this some more...
And I got a whole bunch of supplies this month, so I'm happy. Gauze by the pound, a few hundred needles, a new organization box, several staplers... lots of goodness. So now I have my pack full and also have some storage backup in my Sharps/Mods Shelves in my bedroom.
Monday, January 11, 2010
Update
So it's been a couple of months. Both very little and very much has happened, depending on how the time is looked at.
I've spent a lot of time at home just chilling with my cat, as usual.
I've been taking my medicines really well and telling a difference by them.
I've spent 2 weeks visiting my parents in upstate NY.
I've started painting again.
I received a Wii and Wii Fit Plus board bundle for an early, early birthday present from Chael.
I've gotten my house mostly sorted.
I went out drinking with my sister for New Years Eve for the first time (she took me to a couple local bars that I was still too young to go to when I left home).
I've attended several BDSM social events in the area, including Bound & Determined II, but mostly just weekly and weekend get-togethers. Last Saturday night I was painted on with tempera paint by a friend at an event focused around such things. Lazy fun... then a Very Chilly shower afterwards because the hot water only sort of works at the club.
I don't recall if I mentioned this in earlier journals, but my packer (Mr. Softy Small (I also bought a medium but it was too long for my preferences) arrived and I've enjoyed wearing it -and sometimes my corset at the same time.
I'm sure more exciting things have occurred, but I'm blanking now that I'm in front of the computer.
My ears healed up beautifully from the scalpeling. They are both at 3/4".
Jonesy lost 2 pounds for no known reason (been acting and seeming to eat just fine), but now that I'm back from visiting my mom (while he was kenneled with his vet and eating fine there, they said) he's not eating much here... I'm keeping an eye on the food bowl and worrying a little, but not much yet.
It freakin' cold here, too.
I've spent a lot of time at home just chilling with my cat, as usual.
I've been taking my medicines really well and telling a difference by them.
I've spent 2 weeks visiting my parents in upstate NY.
I've started painting again.
I received a Wii and Wii Fit Plus board bundle for an early, early birthday present from Chael.
I've gotten my house mostly sorted.
I went out drinking with my sister for New Years Eve for the first time (she took me to a couple local bars that I was still too young to go to when I left home).
I've attended several BDSM social events in the area, including Bound & Determined II, but mostly just weekly and weekend get-togethers. Last Saturday night I was painted on with tempera paint by a friend at an event focused around such things. Lazy fun... then a Very Chilly shower afterwards because the hot water only sort of works at the club.
I don't recall if I mentioned this in earlier journals, but my packer (Mr. Softy Small (I also bought a medium but it was too long for my preferences) arrived and I've enjoyed wearing it -and sometimes my corset at the same time.
I'm sure more exciting things have occurred, but I'm blanking now that I'm in front of the computer.
My ears healed up beautifully from the scalpeling. They are both at 3/4".
Jonesy lost 2 pounds for no known reason (been acting and seeming to eat just fine), but now that I'm back from visiting my mom (while he was kenneled with his vet and eating fine there, they said) he's not eating much here... I'm keeping an eye on the food bowl and worrying a little, but not much yet.
It freakin' cold here, too.
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